There was some laughter, but mostly a quietness and heaviness in the room. The silence was so thick it was hard to breathe at points. Then, at other times, it lifted in a smile, a comment, or a nod. We went to his room and remembered. We descended the stairs into the basement, heard the cue ball crack against the others, and wished it was him behind the stick. We were just flooded with him; I knew he was there.
Jacob played the song he had written for David, and we all sat crying. The conversation finally broke through barriers of small talk, and hidden feelings began to surface. His sister Sarah told us how he had spoken so much about us, how he had stories for each of us, and she went around the room and reminisced. And we reminisced.
We went to Jason's and smoked a bit. In that room, I swear to God he was there. I know he is always there, but I truly felt him, and that doesn't happen often. In the car ride to the bar, I realized the dream I had the other night had told me what was to come on this night. In my dream, I had been in a car and looked out the window at the sky. The moon was traveling incredibly fast, circling the sky a few times every couple of seconds. Likewise, the clouds were shape-changing so rapidly, looking like dissipating smoke exhaled by stars. There was a spaceship watching us. I was with friends from Evanston, and it was late. I was to work in the morning, and I had called home to say I'd be home late. We were all together, and it was a very happy time. We were all eating cake. I realized this dream was exactly what happened last night.
I sat in the car, and this smile formed on my face just like the smile that came to me a year ago when I realized that death was one of David's lessons for us- death and the importance of friends and family. It was when Jason and I walked stoned over the sidewalk near Ryan's old house on Maple, the day of David's funeral. Last night, I realized the spaceship was David- or, at least it held him- and the sky was changing so fast because everything is changing so fast. And, just as it was normal in my dream to me, I can understand it in waking life.
I felt so much love last night in that bar with my friends, talking about the past, present, and very importantly, the future. I want my future to contain all of those people. All the people I love. David taught me the importance of that, and I'll never stop thanking him.